Ever know someone like this? The person who is sitting across from you, next to you, or talking over the phone with you who is going on and on with the “what if” scenarios. No they are not a detective trying to put together facts of a case to catch the bad guy they are your family member, your friend, your neighbor, your coworker or even someone you just met who has something going on in their lives that has caused them to travel to the land of “what if”. It is in this land that they try to find some sort of resolution. All the while you sit there firmly planted in reality listening to them run on and on quietly asking yourself why cant they just wake up to the truth. It just is.